
So you've probably noticed I like Buddha, because he's the only diety I really talk about on here, but while I've dabbled in Buddhism, I'd never been to a Buddhist service. That changed yesterday, thanks to the ever loving and fabulous @darcybl who took me with her to the Rime Buddhist Center. It's a lovely space full of vibrant colors, creaky wood floors, hangings of Buddhisotvas and incarnations of Buddha all over, bright red cushions for everyone to sit on, and a gorgeous, enormous altar full of shiny, gorgeous, spiritual nicknacks.
One of the things that ended up delighting me the most was how the Lama was in a skirt! It's the traditional garb as you can see sported by the Dalai Lama here:

I was like "hot damn! That's sexy!" And then I thought, "you know, I really forgot about that when I was writing my blog about boys not being that attractive to me."
Because boys in skirts are so fucking hot. It's the reason I became friends with this crew that turned out to be from Omaha one night in Balancas:

The two boys were running around in kilts and I knew I HAD to be friends with those people. So we ended up hanging out there and then they came back and crashed at our apartment. It turned out they were totally awesome and consider themselves "circus folk." They do all sorts of fire and snake and hoop and ariel fabric dancing and who knows what else. We went to party at the Dr. Sketchy's loft the next day (where these pics were taken) and the wearing of the kilt is why this boy got to nom on my ear:
(also, I was drunk)I don't know what it is about it, either the gender bending or the fact that guys in skirts tend to have incredible self esteem and no problem with breaking the norm, which is always sexy.
It's strange to me that no matter how physical the attraction I feel for boys in skirts thing may be, I still generally don't find it sexually attractive. Which throws my mind to way back when I was a fresh young 20 something reading an older guy's posts somewhere about how there were all these different levels of attraction: mental, physical, sexual, etc. At the time I was still reacting so strongly to the sexual repression I'd grown up with that EVERYTHING was about sex for me, and I thought how dumb this guy was thinking that attraction could ever not involve sex... and now here I am wishing I remembered where the fuck I read that so I could talk to him about it.
Oh, perspective.... how much you matter.
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